If you find an answer let me know. DD1 is a great eater, DD2, terrible, only has set things she will eat, we do all the things you do too, she will not eat any vegies or fruit, I get fruit in my getting pureed stuff and mixing it with yoghurt and cereal. She'll eat breads, chicken, yoghurt, I make spag bol she'll pick out the spaghetti. I make fried rice she'll pick out only the bits rice. I tried to make muffins with vegies grated she wouldn't even try them!